Medical notes before marriage

Avoid the marriage of relatives.


2 - Avoid the marriage of relatives.
3 - convergence of age.
4 - Genetic.
5 - a medical examination before marriage.
6 - Summary of laboratory tests.


Avoid the marriage of relatives: relatives, especially first class, where numerous studies have shown that health problems and changes to increase by a large congenital whenever the couple became closer ratios to each other.


Convergence in the Age: or to be a pair slightly larger than the wife. The smaller the age difference was more understanding of mental, cultural and social best the absence of disease.




Genetic: even if the couple be healthy, the recessive genes may appear clearly to the children, so it's advisable not to intermarriage between the families involved in the presence of a genetic disease such as sickle cell anemia.




Medical examination before marriage: The historical record of patients, to detect clinical analysis of blood and any other tests for the detection of infectious diseases: such as hepatitis and sexually transmitted diseases, laboratory testing to ensure the health of the couple and the ability of women physical to assume the burden of pregnancy and childbirth, and can perform some tests such as rays of sound check on the status and integrity of the genital organs.




Summary of laboratory tests: examination of blood cells and hemoglobin, sedimentation, and sickle cell anemia, and kidney and liver functions and salts of the blood, check blood type, hepatitis screening, syphilis, and any other tests to see the doctor after reviewing the medical history of the couple and their families

If you know what I know Vhstm before marriage from the Department of Sexual Medicine...

If you know what I know Vhstm before marriage






Presenters know if to marry, what I know of the benefits of a medical examination before the wedding night, and its importance to avoid any imbalances that might occur in the marital relationship in the future


The discovery of any disease with the capacity to have children, or the presence of certain genetic diseases and resolve the problem from the start before it gets worse after marriage, and this examination does not reduce the value of a man or a woman, but a guarantee for the future of a family properly.


This was confirmed for the joy / Dr. Hussein as the Prophet director of the Center of family planning and he started throwing light on the beginning of the activity center, saying: The Centre was established in 1958 as a clinic for the treatment of venereal diseases for men, then turned to the Division of Sabah Hospital serves the health, not only in the field of venereal diseases, but in the treatment of erectile dysfunction and male infertility cases. * He added:


Medical examination before marriage lets us know the general health situation on the verge of marriage, and if we happen to hit one of the parties illness did not know the wound of it before we immediately subjecting him to the necessary treatment, this has happened with many of the visitors to the center where cases were found infected with sugar, and others suffer from impaired function of the kidney and liver, in addition to inflammatory diseases of the urethra and reproductive system, and whenever we detect the disease early as a result of the treatment he is receiving positive.




Necessary analysis




* The most important tests conducted by the center: a blood test to see injury or free scanner from certain diseases such as sugar, and determine the percentage of cholesterol, and salt, as well as to examine the urethra and reproductive system to detect the presence of any type of infection that may impede the later reproductive process and cause the transmission to the other party, as well as conducting an examination of semen to determine the reproductive capacity and whether there are problems preventing the occurrence of reproduction, including tests also know the blood group of spouses, a factor of (Rh) ie: the type of platoon positive or negative, if both spouses are blood group and one which both positive or negative, there is no problem, but if the wife of the family of negative negative and the husband of the family of positive positive, there may be a problem in the first pregnancy since they may become the wife after the birth type of sensitivity, and prior knowledge of this situation we can be treated by giving injections "anti - D.




Affected by the disease, the couple married




• The injury a couple already some diseases especially diseases of the reproductive system greatly affects their married life, so we always recommend the importance of treating the injured party with the disease before marriage so as not to cause the transmission to his partner, as well as the injured men with diabetes and neglect in the treatment may affect the his sexual power, hence the importance of starting early in treatment to improve the patient's condition and make it in the case of better health, and also discover the problems and diseases of the reproductive capacity as the early results were better and faster, or at least I have a patient prior knowledge of the possibility of delayed occurrence of childbearing after marriage and so underestimate the size of the social problems that may arise due to the rapid reproduction.




Health and safety of children, parents




It also represents the health of the parents play an important role in the safety and health of children, especially the mother, because the impact would be directly to the fetus, which feeds and grows inside her womb, while gaining the children of genetic diseases through their parents and, in general, there are some diseases affect adversely the health of children if he was wounded by parents such as diabetes, especially if the patient is kind of a playboy who does not adhere to treatment, although the mother of a platoon negative may give birth to children diagnosed with anemia (anemia) if you do not take precautions medical, especially during pregnancy and after childbirth, as well as HIV AIDS is transmitted to the fetus through the mother if were infected with the disease, this in addition to genetic diseases that may be carried by one of the parents and children to move later.




Statistics




Result of increased awareness among the citizens see the center very popular year after year in the cases of those who want a medical examination before marriage, as statistics indicate that in 1992 the number of cases 274 increased in 1993 to become a 322 status and increased this rate to 420 cases in


1994, the latest statistics we have are for 1995 indicate that the number of cases reached 717 cases This is a good indicator confirms the high rate of health awareness among citizens and the residents too, especially that there are some countries impose their laws and their embassies to their citizens to provide a medical certificate the state of health before marriage as a condition to complete the marriage contract .




Perfect Bride




The medical examination before marriage and to clarify the health status of the parties at an early stage does not mean the prohibition of marriages between them, even if one of them was infected with a disease, these things (Perfect Bride), but all aim to make this examination is to detect diseases early and work on the treatment, as well as information the couple by placing them healthy and then leaves them the option to complete the marriage or to wait until healing or rejection.


It is through my work place for touch near the growing awareness of the Kuwaitis and their understanding the need for a medical examination before marriage, and the erosion of the erroneous idea that was in the minds of some people, this examination or detract from the dignity of manhood, and statistics bear witness.




Confidentiality




One of the main conditions of employment medical confidentiality in dealing with patients, may not violate the confidentiality of the patient revealed his illness to one without taking the consent, so the job is done when you inform the patient personally, including suffering from it and leave him the freedom to tell the other party or the other, especially as we give him a medical certificate his state of health and stakeholders can be found if he so desires.




Attitudes and realistic




One of the cases came to the Centre for the examination year was the discovery of her diabetes, and was immediately transferred to the clinic sugar of his residence, as well as we discovered injured man gonorrhea was treated, and tried to advise him to postpone the wedding until they are completely cured so as not to cause the transmission to his wife

Faults of the man at the marriage

If adolescence is not Mahzil.


If it does not come down when the marriage is scirrhoid.


If the conversation is Zmlq down.




If he was staying before it merges Rdhuj.




If he does not even look at Inaz Naik and S. maniac he is.




If it happens when the marriage is Aveot.




If he is unable to Deflowering Vasyl.




If unable to get married is impotent.

Is marriage kills love?

Marriage does not kill love, it is even aggravated depth and originality, what it is all that love is no longer needed to express himself as long as the marriage is attested by his presence and protected, but people who do not feel alone and their feelings REM need to tell him we love him, and that We reiterate that at all times and only felt the pain and misery, and that the status of women and men as well. In common life finds love new forms of expressing existence and confirms the originality and depth, and thus become expressions of love without the benefit of no avail, acts and attitudes should be sufficient, but it is only to prove the existence of love and express it really. The fact that love is reflected in the attempts wife Avenue to achieve greater understanding and harmony, as well as the common desire to have a child and hopes for the joint, all of this is true in itself, but does not preclude women's sense of pain as long as the spouse does not express her love does not show so more of tenderness and gentleness, and often noticed that women by definition, the husband and the increase in paper towards him, increase his often strained, some women whenever They feel they gave their more tenderness and kindness they felt their husbands stay away of them. Can not couple in fact, avoid moments of apathy that plagued their lives from time to time, and is better for them to recognize the reality that Ewaghah in the calm and courage, and are confident that the withdrawal does not soon go away, Vetotr one of them and anger is not inevitably be subordinated to calm the other and smile, but may tension builds as the other adult in the synthesis of false calm and fun. Usually Almahban they Itbahian they integrated unit is no difference between them is assigned, and this is wrong, whatever their ties strong and close, and whatever the harmony between them in full will remain for each of them the same temperament and inclinations, abilities, character and ideas, and here there must be cost them so avoid shock when discover that they do not agree in everything the opposite of what they were Itohemen. then that both had feared for his freedom from Zgeean Love Do not doubt for a beloved distance closer than this, that sometimes scares the tyranny of love. The phrase "Tell me you love me" may mean "Tell me you love me as long as you love me already .. tell me you really love me, regardless of the fact that your emotions Grammar." The automatic reaction may be one of silence or a short answer such as, "Of course I love you, as you know "The truth is that love does not kill the marriage, and enough acts and deeds of the sign of love and strength. and not only women that would like to express his love for her husband, the man also fret is also the same sense of ... The truth is that love does not kill him but the marriage is expressed in other things and feel foreseen by intelligent women, and realize temperature and touching her husband prophetess, and each expresses his love one way or another.


Libido that generate and move and piety in the young age, about five years of age, ie before the completion of mental ability, and able to shoulder the burdens of marriage, and family care, and treatment of the other sidekick justice and honor.


Marriage is not a physical catharsis for miles only! It's physical, moral and social require different qualifications, and to be completed this qualification status of Islam to ensure that the foundations of the life of purity and literature for boys and girls alike.


I think that people take the five prayers throughout the day have a profound impact in whispers falling away, to join the prevention of all Thrills that could trigger latent desires. The veil of the project, ignoring the sight, and hide the ornaments, and the spacing between the breath of men and the breath of women in any mixing of messy, and fill leisure time with various Jihad scientific, social and military - when needed -; all bear good fruit in building the society on the virtues.


Then comes marriage, which improves its early, also improves stripped of the traditions of hypocrisy and extravagance, and affectation, which excelled in people to create them was a disaster for them.


The oddity of human behavior it is that is made for the same harmful restrictions, which creates a myth, and sacred!!


Islam is the right medication is effective, and the elements that it provides to the community clean, maintained its symptoms, and prevail defer chastity and begins at home, Valslwat organized its members, all boys and men, and watching the performance her in a kind and rigorous, and takes into account the symbols of Islam, food, clothing, accommodation and polite, and host of relatives and friends. .




The many aspects of public life, is responsible for the maintenance of the home and promote purity, and the creation of generations to a minimum integrity.




There are three parameters should be available in a Muslim household, or to show moral support for his being in the lead mission and achieve its function, these three are: tranquility, love and compassion ..




I mean, tranquility and psychological stability, so the wife's delight for her husband, not Ieduha to another, and delight to be the husband to his wife, not thinking in other ..




The affection is mutual feeling of love makes the relationship based on the satisfaction and happiness .. And comes with the role of compassion to know that this character-based ethics of the great men and women alike, as God Almighty says to His Prophet, "the great mercy of God Lent, if you're harsh hearted shake around .." (Al-Imran: 159), no mercy for the color of pity the crossbar, but the paper is the spring of permanent and gentleness and honor creative curriculum ..




When the houses on the housing stable, and friendly caller, and compassion forearm, the marriage will be supervised blessings, Obarakaa impact ...




And will overcome many obstacles, and be nothing but good offsprings, that most of what the boys than a decade and rivalry due to ill marital relationship, and the corruption of fences.




The religion does not suppress the demands of instinct, nor confiscate longings to self-satisfaction, comfort and joy, and when a person decides to marry to investigate the existence of the qualities sought by women's right and who also choose Baal.




If ratified Khobar marriage and stayed true, otherwise the future of the clouds.


There are men who think that they have rights, not their duties, he has been living in the shell of selfishness and its objectives alone, is a poet the other party, and what should be his. Muslim and the House is based on a fair basis, "and they like upon him and the men have a degree" (Baqarah: 228), a degree of stewardship of this company or principality of living .. ! And serve as a company without a president.


Obviously, this government will not be obsolete to the opinion of the wife, and their legitimate interests were literary or material ..


The social function of the house of a Muslim require certain qualifications, if the glory and presence there is no meaning to the marriage contract.


These qualifications are imposed on men and women together, it is felt helpless about it the right to marry him ..


If women were impoverished tenderness severe heart strong sense of Bmarabha dull sense of the demands of others is better for them to remain single, you will not serve as a housewife, said that the pair may fall, and may depart by reason Narrow the nurse rented. Supposed to be his wife from the other patient showed the screen and hope and pray for him ..


Parties will not understand this issue only if we know that the houses built on mutual love, "are to dress as you dress them" (Baqarah: 187) as he says.