If you know what I know Vhstm before marriage from the Department of Sexual Medicine...

If you know what I know Vhstm before marriage






Presenters know if to marry, what I know of the benefits of a medical examination before the wedding night, and its importance to avoid any imbalances that might occur in the marital relationship in the future


The discovery of any disease with the capacity to have children, or the presence of certain genetic diseases and resolve the problem from the start before it gets worse after marriage, and this examination does not reduce the value of a man or a woman, but a guarantee for the future of a family properly.


This was confirmed for the joy / Dr. Hussein as the Prophet director of the Center of family planning and he started throwing light on the beginning of the activity center, saying: The Centre was established in 1958 as a clinic for the treatment of venereal diseases for men, then turned to the Division of Sabah Hospital serves the health, not only in the field of venereal diseases, but in the treatment of erectile dysfunction and male infertility cases. * He added:


Medical examination before marriage lets us know the general health situation on the verge of marriage, and if we happen to hit one of the parties illness did not know the wound of it before we immediately subjecting him to the necessary treatment, this has happened with many of the visitors to the center where cases were found infected with sugar, and others suffer from impaired function of the kidney and liver, in addition to inflammatory diseases of the urethra and reproductive system, and whenever we detect the disease early as a result of the treatment he is receiving positive.




Necessary analysis




* The most important tests conducted by the center: a blood test to see injury or free scanner from certain diseases such as sugar, and determine the percentage of cholesterol, and salt, as well as to examine the urethra and reproductive system to detect the presence of any type of infection that may impede the later reproductive process and cause the transmission to the other party, as well as conducting an examination of semen to determine the reproductive capacity and whether there are problems preventing the occurrence of reproduction, including tests also know the blood group of spouses, a factor of (Rh) ie: the type of platoon positive or negative, if both spouses are blood group and one which both positive or negative, there is no problem, but if the wife of the family of negative negative and the husband of the family of positive positive, there may be a problem in the first pregnancy since they may become the wife after the birth type of sensitivity, and prior knowledge of this situation we can be treated by giving injections "anti - D.




Affected by the disease, the couple married




• The injury a couple already some diseases especially diseases of the reproductive system greatly affects their married life, so we always recommend the importance of treating the injured party with the disease before marriage so as not to cause the transmission to his partner, as well as the injured men with diabetes and neglect in the treatment may affect the his sexual power, hence the importance of starting early in treatment to improve the patient's condition and make it in the case of better health, and also discover the problems and diseases of the reproductive capacity as the early results were better and faster, or at least I have a patient prior knowledge of the possibility of delayed occurrence of childbearing after marriage and so underestimate the size of the social problems that may arise due to the rapid reproduction.




Health and safety of children, parents




It also represents the health of the parents play an important role in the safety and health of children, especially the mother, because the impact would be directly to the fetus, which feeds and grows inside her womb, while gaining the children of genetic diseases through their parents and, in general, there are some diseases affect adversely the health of children if he was wounded by parents such as diabetes, especially if the patient is kind of a playboy who does not adhere to treatment, although the mother of a platoon negative may give birth to children diagnosed with anemia (anemia) if you do not take precautions medical, especially during pregnancy and after childbirth, as well as HIV AIDS is transmitted to the fetus through the mother if were infected with the disease, this in addition to genetic diseases that may be carried by one of the parents and children to move later.




Statistics




Result of increased awareness among the citizens see the center very popular year after year in the cases of those who want a medical examination before marriage, as statistics indicate that in 1992 the number of cases 274 increased in 1993 to become a 322 status and increased this rate to 420 cases in


1994, the latest statistics we have are for 1995 indicate that the number of cases reached 717 cases This is a good indicator confirms the high rate of health awareness among citizens and the residents too, especially that there are some countries impose their laws and their embassies to their citizens to provide a medical certificate the state of health before marriage as a condition to complete the marriage contract .




Perfect Bride




The medical examination before marriage and to clarify the health status of the parties at an early stage does not mean the prohibition of marriages between them, even if one of them was infected with a disease, these things (Perfect Bride), but all aim to make this examination is to detect diseases early and work on the treatment, as well as information the couple by placing them healthy and then leaves them the option to complete the marriage or to wait until healing or rejection.


It is through my work place for touch near the growing awareness of the Kuwaitis and their understanding the need for a medical examination before marriage, and the erosion of the erroneous idea that was in the minds of some people, this examination or detract from the dignity of manhood, and statistics bear witness.




Confidentiality




One of the main conditions of employment medical confidentiality in dealing with patients, may not violate the confidentiality of the patient revealed his illness to one without taking the consent, so the job is done when you inform the patient personally, including suffering from it and leave him the freedom to tell the other party or the other, especially as we give him a medical certificate his state of health and stakeholders can be found if he so desires.




Attitudes and realistic




One of the cases came to the Centre for the examination year was the discovery of her diabetes, and was immediately transferred to the clinic sugar of his residence, as well as we discovered injured man gonorrhea was treated, and tried to advise him to postpone the wedding until they are completely cured so as not to cause the transmission to his wife

Lines addressed to the men to let them know what their wives love them

We talk a lot about what should be characteristic of women than the attitude of recipes, and of its obligations, and should do even have the love of her husband and maintain the nest, but we rarely speak to men!!


These lines addressed to the men to let them know you love them even ease their wives and rest:


* Creation and religion


In the interest of the family, and society's interest, that is associated with each of the men and women who is like him, and not spoiled married life - often - as a result of repulsion foul .. and the conflicting tendencies; If she marries the girl good malignant narrowed Boukbuth, The Narrows is Beslahaa and piety, and unlike That cleared the life of righteous deeds with what brought them together if one family. Says the Almighty God in His Book: (Thy vile men, and vile men for vile women, and good things for good, and good men for good), and confirmation of these meanings according to the Prophet - peace be upon him - "If there comes from happy with his creation and his religion, then marry, but do not do that confusion in the land, and the corruption of a broad" ..


And thus focused the Prophet - peace be upon him - in guiding Quran, on the creation and religion, and omitted what else he urged that satisfaction with them and to beware of ignoring them, because of the consequent confusion in the land and great corruption, the heart of the situation of the Muslim family, and shaking its foundations if married girls Safe reprobate man, what has the availability of money and prestige, or for other reasons.


* Efficiency


Scholars say: What is meant efficient in the door of the couple's marriage, that are equally private matters consequent inequality in couple's life not upright in most cases. Shall not be less than the man in stature, character and social status of women.


It was narrated from Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allah be pleased with him that the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - said to him: "O Ali: three did not delay it: the prayer if they came from, and if I attended the funeral, and Alaim if found competent."


It was narrated from Aisha, may Allah be pleased that the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - said: "Pick well for Ntvkm Anhawwa and qualified."


And efficiency of the rights of the wife, which honored her, is not permissible for the woman's guardian to marry her from her incompetent, but may not prevent marriage to the lack of efficiency.


The scholars differed in terms of efficiency, Imam Ahmed bin Hanbal narrated that that these conditions are: equality of religion and descent. And is not intended to religion here, "Islam", a Muslim woman may not marry non-Muslim, but is to be righteousness and stop what is not permitted by the law of Islam, because the reprobate return the certificate is not safe to self and money.


He quoted Imam Malik that efficiency can only be in the religion only. Shafi'i and Imam: religion, descent, freedom, industry, and the left, and safety defects that prevent the enjoyment of the spouses.


* Love and understanding


"Love and compassion" are the basis of the interaction between the couple, then each of the spouses into account the feeling of the other party and his tastes and his respect for and sympathy with him if check understanding and love between the couple's marital happiness achieved and achieved successful relations between the spouses, and achieve the perfect marriage.


And a sense of the wife that her husband does not care about its wishes not keen on its participation in matters of family feeling painful, so your husband should take into account his wife's feelings and kindness of it must take into account its efforts and responsibilities of inside and outside the home and may cause her fatigue physical dispersion, and sometimes intellectual.


* Overlook the errors and keep secret and cover the defect


I know that the insured requests the excuses and hypocritical request slips. When the improvement of intentions, and Ttwad hearts, and be over the sanity of living is, there is this aspect in the life of the Holy Family. Feltgd party for lapses in particular is intended. Do not mention your wife ill people and the spread of her secret, do not tell them what you know of hidden defects, although I have seen as shameful, her face gently and paper.


* Decorate them, and festooned with you:


Blessed God Almighty to His slaves in what was revealed to them the decorations that prepared them better, and their homes, the Almighty said: (Say the campus of Accessories of God which He has produced for His slaves, and good things of living, the less is for those who believe in this life on the Day of Resurrection).


The Sunnah also exhorts Muslims, men and women of good body hygiene and in so many conversations.


And decorate to her husband, as well as the man to his wife should take him a couple lucky manner, because of reasons of intimacy and affection, for this street decorations really make each project the owner.


A woman loves to have her husband's good looks and clothing, he said Omar Bin Al Khattab may Allah be pleased with him: Tsnawa to your wives and they like what you provide him with them. He said Abdullah bin Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him: I like to Otzin for my wife as I like to adorn me.


Some of the righteous wearing clothes precious and says: "I have women and Maids phasin myself not to look at for the others.


* Preach the girls:


The Almighty said: (and if humans one female under the face Msauda Kzim ....), and the Almighty said: (Allah belongs the heavens and the earth, He creates what He wills, wills wills, and bestows male who wishes, or He gives them daughters and female and make whom He pleases barren He knows things).


No one knows where the good and wise man does not follow the whims and adorned with the devil, and remember the verse: (And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you) ... Does not rejoice in all the joy newborn male, nor grieve if a female gave birth, you do not know the good in either. How many people benefited girl and her parents and was one of righteousness and mercy, made when her parents age, and how much I'm after them and deny them in their old age, experience has shown that good by the girls more, and are awaiting to reward about them.